Molly's Zone

In writing this post, I spent what seemed like forever coming up with a new concept for a Thanksgiving themed post. 2019 has truly been an interesting year full of change; this will be the first holiday that I don't get a "Happy Thanksgiving" phone call from my grandmother, nor will I have the opportunity to see her in person. I still find myself thinking of her often, though the sadness phase of grief has lessened. I pretend that she is still at my aunt's house as a way of coping. My mind likes to imagine that I just haven't gone to visit with her for a long time. Loss is difficult and I thought of many others who are facing such a thing during the holidays. I don't know if you ever truly get over it. I think you just adapt; however, life is never quite the same as before. I know a lot of people are hurting; I don't have much to say other than to hold on to your hope. Make it a priority for this Thanksgiving to be a time for family.  Trials and tribu...

"I wish I could be like her. I'll never be as pretty as that girl. I'll never find the right person. I wish I had the kind of life that lady has. Why can't I ever have what someone else does? I'll never be good enough. I just want to be happy." It's hard to imagine how many women face the giant of these intrusive thoughts on a daily basis. The inability to be confident is a growing epidemic.  The mind and the thoughts put into it are at the heart of someone who becomes uncomfortable with themselves. The seeds planted are small, yet reap so much destruction--someone in a half joking way makes a comment on your weight or body shape, comparisons between you and another person seep into conversations; critical words become an every day part of life and those seeds go on to grow a heart of discontent. A lot of women develop unhealthy coping patterns; body image and confidence are two of the most affected areas of our lives as a result. Most fight unspo...

Distraction has become an all too common presence in our society; its venom exists as a powerful and dominating force. The convenience of social media, the glistening lure of the smart phone, and unlimited access to knowledge and any sort of music that our hearts may desire at the surface serve a positive purpose; technology is handy when a situation arises and help is needed quickly. The sheer availability of technology itself is not in question. I am referring to how many people in society might admit that they are unhealthily attached to their electronics. As a young woman and writer, I was wondering what to touch on next and my writing just hadn't seemed as inspired as it once was. I'll admit it. Boldly. I love my phone. I had countless games downloaded onto it and aimlessly scrolled through my social media for the majority of my days. I hadn't been writing as much, lost my focus on Christ, and neglected to spend time in my office that doubles as my prayer room. I be...