Molly's Zone

Disabilities are not one dimensional; it is easy to look at someone with cerebral palsy and see all of the most textbook symptoms such as joint aches, a noticeably different walk, and fatigue that seems to increase with each passing year while just assuming CP is a one size fits all kind of deal. That’s not true. No, not true at all. In fact, it is this  very assumption that pushes so many into the dark abyss that is the “I can’t” syndrome; so many don’t understand that yes, we do have limitations but we aren’t all the same and we do have stories that need to be heard; ones that we are capable of sharing. How do we get rid of the “one size fits all” stereotype? How do we make people listen to us?  The core issue is getting people to come together in the first place. The only way one may overcome such scrutiny is by passion built from struggle, confidence built through life experience, and pure determination. Don’t quit. Don’t entertain the “I...

The personification of the correlation of  time and life would  be giving it the description of being a person in quicksand that gets engulfed and completely submerged by the sticky nature of living as quickly their life begins. The only disability in life is a bad attitude; a cliche saying of sorts that I have heard many times over, but within it resides so much truth. We as humans take so much for granted, such as the fresh summer air that surrounds us, the people who love us, and what all life offers us: the countless opportunities, and the many blessings we don't deserve.  Life is too short. Eat the cake. Stay up late once in a while. Laugh loudly. Hug freely. Attitude is everything. Smile often. You will never truly know what the silent demonstration of your strength and perseverance will mean to someone; perhaps, it isn't your place to know. Be yourself. Don't focus on the invalid opinions of those around you, because they will always find something t...

I'm still awake late tonight writing; ahhh...I just love the feel of a new ink pen. Am I really halfway through with filling a third notebook? I really enjoy writing so much; it seems like my brain is a never ending pool of ideas and stories. When I do take time to just shut that part of me off (which can be hard to do) I like to relax and give my head a much needed rest. The topic for tonight's blog is a continuation of last week. I mentioned the first four activities in that blog: my coffee addiction, plenty of rest, keeping up with Molly's Zone, and hanging out in my office. I hope you all enjoy the rest I am sharing in this blog! I don't know if it will end up being six things listed tonight, as the rewrite I've done kind of shortened it, but here it is! 1)   Books/Movies/TV : I am not a huge television fan, but to me there's nothing more relaxing than binge watching shows on Amazon Prime (you'll understand perfectly well if you are some...

Tuesday has shown its face once again  and as planned, in today's post we will be discussing my top favorite self- care (you can also call it relaxation) tips; this week I will be writing on the first half, and next week we will finish up with the second half. I have so many ways I love to relax, so I just wanted to take this opportunity to share. Hope you enjoy my words today! 1)  Coffee - Oh, I wouldn't be able to even mention relaxation without including my deep affection for coffee. I had my first cup of coffee at age eleven, and I have been hooked ever since. Morning cups of joe are a MUST. My day will not run as smooth without my caffeine fix. Lately, I have been writing late into the nighttime (lots of inspiration has hit me)and my dear companion has been the only one to steal me from my notebook and salvage me for the next day. LOL!  2)  Rest When Needed (Sometimes!) - Plenty of rest is also a MUST for Miss Molly. I am finding that as I get olde...

Dear Momma, our second Mother's Day has already passed and yesterday was just a typical Sunday for us, but feeling inspired and in the spur of the moment I decided to dedicate a special blog post to you just because I want everybody to know just how much I love you. Life with you has certainly been an adventure full of twists and turns. You have been there to celebrate my best moments and comfort me through the worst. I am as strong as I am because of the person you helped me become. I am so happy that God meant for us to be together on this journey. As time goes on, I am seeing more of you in me and I feel blessed because you've been the best mother anyone could ever ask for; you've worked hard to make sure I have had everything and more while instilling in me the importance of a good work ethic. Your unconditional love is not something that I know much about, as not many have loved me in that way but I am so thankful that you have given an example of what love should be:...

Have you ever sat down and thought about the people you love most? Has there ever been one person who understands everything about you so much more than you understand yourself? The person who is that special someone in my heart is Jesus. As I sat in my office and pondered over a topic for Tuesday, I couldn't think of anything. The past couple days have been kind of different for me, as I sent my sweet golden lab to a new home; I am quite heartbroken, but I know it was the most loving decision I could make for her. I always try to keep my posts positive and light; but I also feel like being real with my readers is important too.  Saturday night was my first official all nighter at my desk in months. I had coffee, and I had a good talk with Jesus; after our talk and having my feelings fade away, I felt so thankful for His gentleness and love towards me. I love the fact that He listens and always helps. I felt this post should be a thank you to Him and my encourageme...